Toy shops annoy me, with their massive distinctions between boys' and girls' toys. I am a firm believer in having a wide range of toys for my wee man, not just fire trucks and cars.
In the run up to Christmas I heard a long debate on Newstalk FM about Marks and Spencer changing their toy marketing to be gender neutral
rather than having specific boys' and girls' toy areas. It depressed me how many comments there were ridiculing this idea. Yes, gender stereotyping of children is apparently totally fine according to the majority of listeners of Newstalk FM. Not exactly representative of the general public I know, but still surprising.
To be honest, I've been surprised at comments from friends my age about particular toys being "girl's toys" or "boy's toys" (and thus unacceptable as a gift for a boy/girl). Why the hell do we have to decide what's acceptable for our kids? A play kitchen is not okay for a boy and a truck is not okay for a girl? WTF?
Okay rant over, (and don't get me started on gender neutral clothing, of which there is none within a 50 mile radius of where I live...) the point of this post is to talk about the doll pictured above. I wanted the wee man to have a doll. It's really good for kids to have dolls (these people explain why better than I could)
. But I didn't want to get a plastic doll...which is where this kit
from Clothkits comes in.
I love Clothkits. You may remember a skirt from them I made before
. I really enjoyed making the skirt and I love the style of their kits. Completely '70s! How '70s is the doll?!
So I got the kit and made it up for the wee man. It is a challenging project in parts but well worth the effort! On their site they say it is a good way to learn to sew, but I would say you'd want to be pretty confident at sewing (or at least fairly gung-ho and have a good bit of patience). The kit includes the printed cloth for making the doll, instruction, stuffing, poppers, elastic and thread. I ended up using my own elastic as I couldn't figure out the instructions for using theirs.
Cutting out the pattern is very easy - it comes as a big sheet of fabric and you cut around the printed outlines to cut out all the pieces.
The instructions are good, but they could be better. Perhaps my expectations were high after making the skirt (which I don't remember having any issues with) but I found some of the instructions hard to understand. It seems like they could be updated to be clearer, along with some of the diagrams, which are small and not that clear either.
Some of the fabric pieces didn't line up - the hat for example needed a little ripping back and an extra bit cut off the band. Small things like this just take a short while to explain better in the text.
Also, any mistakes were hard to rectify. The problem with picking seams is that the fabric is quite tender and I managed to rip a small hole in it ripping back a seam. So you want to try not to make any mistakes.
The seam allowances are tiny too!! (2.5mm) It is very difficult to do such small seams - especially when you are turning 2.5mm over twice (to hide raw edges) and at times I just gave up and did one fold of 5mm, leaving raw edges on the inside.
I certainly found it challenging at times and I think a re-look at their instructions would certainly help make the kit better. But overall I love it! How cool are the owl pyjamas!
How cool is the doll! He's brilliant! The wee man likes him too. Overall I was very happy and would definitely get another kit from them. But I would certainly not recommend it to a sewing novice, unless they had a lot of patience. Or a helpful friend.
Go, dolls for boys!
Are there any toys you think boys and girls should both have?